Tuesday, November 26, 2019

Attitude Of Gratitude: Kansas City Lady Scribe Resolves To Stop Vilifying Men

Our blog community offers thanks to this local columnist for taking on a great deal of personal responsibility and providing and ALTERNATIVE to cynical, knee-jerk gender politics in this thoughtful relationship post . . . Checkit:

Not All Men Are Evil

Okay, before the hate comments start rolling in, let's get a few things straight. I consider myself a feminist. There is still a lot of work to be done until women are treated as equals to their male counterparts. But in the meantime, do we really need to treat all men like the spawn of Satan?

38 comments:

Anonymous said...

Amazing that she feels obligated to APOLOGIZE for not hating all men. Please do us guys a favor and don't marry anyone. No one deserves to be that miserable.

Anonymous said...

Bunch of meaningless garbage and babble.

Anonymous said...

My feminism has always vilified women more than men.
If anyone ever asks me what it is like living in KC, i will just tell them about the time i was told how mean i am bc i kept insisting to a female that the litter box for her cat needs to be removed from the kitchen counter. and leave it at that.

chuck said...

"Don’t misunderstand, some men truly are the absolute worst. I have been privileged enough to never have been severely hurt by a man in my life, and I do not take that blessing lightly."

Yeah, cause most guys beat the fuck out of girls all the time.

Brutal. She is indoctrinated and manipulated by her "Thought Leaders" and thinks she is posting revolutionary new concepts that even though men are guilty until proven innocent, she is especially able to overlook the obvious intrinsic criminality of men as a species.

Fuckin brutal.

".. However, I am about as single as humanly possible and I’ve never had an actual boyfriend. I’ve never been truly heartbroken by a guy, but my love life hasn’t been all sunshine and rainbows either. Or as Queen Lizzo said, “Yeah, I got boy problems. That’s the human in me.”

Jesus... Her opinion on men, just might be skewed by a lack of experience and her "voice" jujune by way of same.

"I realized that it would be impossible to heal with all of this hate and anger in my heart, so I let it go. It wasn’t easy, but it felt so good acknowledge that a guy wasn’t the one holding me back. It was me. I had to accept that I was angry for no reason, and as soon as I accepted that, I was able to start dealing with my feelings in a healthy, productive manner. "

The movie is called, "He's Just Not That Into You".

"Yes, I will absolutely still rock out to Lizzo and other breakup queens when boys make me sad,"

Boys, no one, "makes you sad". It is, as you at one point, insighfully noted, your responsibility to make your life the best it can be.

Anonymous said...

Men deal with genres of kitty litter bitches all the time and it just makes life difficult for bitches like me.

Anonymous said...

There are plenty of evil women, who ya kiddin?

Anonymous said...

Chuck..just cause women hate you enmasse, doesn't mean they hate the rest of us. You-certainly they do. You're an ass!

Anonymous said...

the question remains, who has a lot of work to do before women are treated equally, en masse is it women or men?

Anonymous said...

can women continue to yell rape if they go to a man's hotel room or when they get drunk at a frat party or when they say they had to give the male job interviewer a blow job?

Anonymous said...

So why exactly are feminists of the modern era so angry with men? We live in a world where all the real problems and issues are taken care of, so virtue signaling and social justice has emerged to create issues to be upset over. Imagine waking up each day and looking for things to get riled up over and then deciding men are the root cause of all evil? Imagine turning men’s issues into a way for women to further play victim? Such nonsense has already occurred in the many media outlets, such as this article from Harpers Bazaar “Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden.” Isolated men are a woman’s burden? This incessant pandering to females as the ultimate victims in an oppressive society truly needs to be culled.

Men are feeling hopeless and unwanted. They are losing the ability to find purpose in life since they are repetitively enlightened by the media about how bad they are for merely existing. If you cannot find a purpose in life, what is the point in living simply to exist? This is a real problem men are facing today and it is women who caused it.

We began to see how this became a problem with the #MeToo movement. What started out as good intentions to shed light on sexual assault and harassment in and around Hollywood, and then into the common workplace, rapidly turned on its own head. When all it took was a person’s word that something happened with no actual proof, this movement started targeting men. “Believe all women” was a battle cry, and yet there is evidence that some women were lying to gain fame and payouts in the end, vilifying men and ruining careers in the blink of an eye.

It's sick, it is twisted, it is Progressive.





Anonymous said...

We live in a world where all the real problems and issues are taken care of while we focus on gender neutral bathrooms and women yelling rape after they voluntarily go to a hotel room?
You are definitely a white guy.

Anonymous said...

a sensitive white guy, and feeling hopeless and unwanted is not specific to being a male.

Silvestor orgalthorp said...

Everything runs in a cycle. We are starting to see the cycle of feminism come to an end. When something that started as a good thing becomes a joke, it’s over

Anonymous said...

^^and yet it's not whatsoever and it's you who remains the joke in perpetuity. Weird.

Anonymous said...

9:23: Not Chuck here and I rarely agree with him, but in my experience women who don't hate men on some level are few and far between, and that hatred can come out in the most unexpected ways and at the most unexpected times.

If you know one who doesn't, by all means, cherish her. You have a rare gem!

Anonymous said...

a sensitive young white guy? How old are you?
If there were not dozens n dozens n dozens of women in hollywood willing to give blowjobs for a bit acting part, and more willing to kick a man in the balls, there would be less sexual harassment in hollywood. But then men really like rewarding those dozens n dozens n dozens and not the one that kicks them in the balls.

Anonymous said...

TKC linking to these UMKC "hercampus" wannabe writers has confirmed that most have serious hippocampus deficiencies!

These naive, coddled, self-described feminists all seem to follow the same writing template:
Select a B.S. title for your article.
Discuss how you're a victim.
Declare that you're unique in some way, but don't dare stray more than two steps away from your girl clique group-think.
Include silly GIFs in your article as a confessional that you aspire to be a dumb blonde.
Be sure to include contradictory statements such as "I've never had an actual boyfriend."
As a university student, be sure to propagate the misuse of the English language with terms like "collegiettes", etc.

With the exception of lesbians, what do young women really want in a male partner? The same thing their mothers and grandmothers wanted: an attractive, physically strong, ambitious man who sought to partner with them for a lifetime commitment, and raise a family.

Anonymous said...

I never had guys throwing dollar bills at me while i am walking down the street and don't think ya gotta be that hot to get them at a strip club.
Enlighten me.

Anonymous said...

Our mothers and grandmothers were doing the same thing women often do now, get pregnant, get married, and then lie.

Anonymous said...

or lie, get pregnant, get married, and lie again.

Anonymous said...

or lie, get pregnant, get married, lie again, get divorced, and lie more.

Anonymous said...

men seem more likely to evade than lie, but you'd have to ask a guy.

Anonymous said...

I think she is partially right. I am a 50's upper middle class male, average height and weight, clean cut, sort of plain looking. When walking in buildings, in elevators or other places with no crowds around - women act like your a threat, they walk to the far side of the hall when you go by. They cover their checkbooks with their hand when writing checks at the grocers as if I really am going to get their address that way and go to their house and rape them, they let me go out doors first so I am not behind them. I mean really! I would be the first guy to go to war and die for the them and the USA - but this is what think of me - and they don't even know me? I know some of the women have been victims of sexual assault and I understand that. But many others are not. Its good to be cautious, but being paranoid must be a miserable way to live. If women think I am going to risk going to jail, giving up my 700k house, large financial assets, golfing, and world travel just to attack "little old them" for sex they must have a really inflated view of their beauty. Any man can go to a bar after 10pm and find a half way attractive, loose woman to take home. And women grossly overestimate how interested men are in sex. We are not sex fiends. Then some of these same women claim they cant find a good man? its cause they view all men with contempt and suspicion and men quickly avoid them. Every person has a interesting life. I am more curious about that than sexual objectifying a woman I just met. As a law abiding citizen, it gets old being treated like a criminal just because your a man. And if I was a minority then it would be even worse! Grow up women! Grow up!

Byron Funkhouser said...

I remember the Equal Rights Amendment, & I remember who defeated it, & why.

However, I agree, that most men are stupid, drunken whores.

In fact, men who aren't stupid, drunken whores are accused of being gay, & not just by other men.

Anonymous said...

If i was a guy, in this climate i would be walking up to women and slipping dollar bills in their back pocket.

Anonymous said...

only very strange women still write checks at the grocery store.

Anonymous said...

Women seem to hate men cause they think men take all the high paying jobs. Lets remember that in the 50's 60's 70's women didn't even want those jobs. How many women even applied for them? Don't be mad that men earn more.

Anonymous said...

if i was doing the same exact job that a man was and he was a dumbshit, making more money, and supporting him, his lazy neurotic wife, and their kids, yeah i'd be mad.

Anonymous said...

keep in mind, if a woman is not already neurotic, they all are when they hit the start menopause.

Anonymous said...

women need jobs so they are less neurotic. when menopause starts they should be fine taking unpaid breaks for an undetermined length of time. All employers should be fine if all their workers take unpaid breaks, particularly when business is low, otherwise you rotate workers and become fine with the lower stress lifestyle that entails. You take a train to st louis instead of being shot through a vacuum tube at 100s of miles per hour.

Anonymous said...

if your lazy bitch has fetish for buying clothes, you make her take a sewing class.

Anonymous said...

if she refuses, u divorce her, and hopefully you figured that out before your horny young cock had kids with her.

Anonymous said...

women also need jobs so they do not sit around in little or large groups of women only concocting theories on the way the world works. Men need women in the workplace so they do not do the same thing, at a faster, cock-eyed pace.

Anonymous said...

at a faster cock eyed pace so they can feed & cloth their neurotic lazy bitch.

Anonymous said...

what do women want from men? I do not want to hurt my brain analyzing women to answer that question , i know what i want from a man, but no one has really honestly asked. Clarity is a good starting point.

Anonymous said...

or a friendly easily convincing threat to do so would probably work too.

Anonymous said...

i believe TKC has deleted some of my comments on numerous occasions, can't say i understand his criteria.

Anonymous said...

Women get really rude, emotional, short and unable to make good decisions once each month. Its called a period. If men acted that way once a month they would be fired. But women are not fired. People avoid them. Then menopause makes them unable to place themselves in someone else's shoes. But they think that behavior is ok and cant understand why they aren't valued as much as a stable, mature, troublefree male employee who gets paid more for higher performance and being less of a pain. Would you pay equal for a person that goes insane 3 days of every month? I wont.