Had to link this one light of day because it was so scary . . . This forthright blogger and biz lady has the courage to confront old acquaintances and offers insight not only into the cowardly ghosting trend but also provides DATA DRIVEN RESEARCH as to why this town's dating scene sucks. Checkit:
To All The Boys Who've Ghosted Me
The first time I watched TATBILB it was a Friday night and I was home alone. I had been dating someone at the time and we were getting to the point where things were going to either progress or fizzle out.
Ghosting is perfectly acceptable and one of the truths of dating in the modern world. It's the most effective and efficient ways of going about it for both people. You're not being ghosted by someone you've been friends with, just someone you met once or twice
ReplyDeleteKCMO is the absolute worst place on the planet for single women.
ReplyDeleteJerks outnumber females, complete the equation.
Single women do just fine, as long as they fuck on the first date. If they don’t, there isn’t a second date. Got it?
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ReplyDeleteIt's that way everywhere not just KC. Mommy and Daddy just don't raise their kids right today. Social ignorance is rampant both male and female.
^^as it is here too. You're a fine example of that.
ReplyDeleteLol, it's so hard for single women? Are you fucking kidding me, bitch? All you have to do is make a profile with a cleavage pic and then you can weed out the pervs from the suitor with the most bank. You gals are HR while us guys are the applicants. It's the most waste of time on the Internet to date.
ReplyDeleteIt only sucks if you're ugly. Or fat and ugly, like Tony.
ReplyDeleteThis blog is really stupid.
ReplyDeleteYet here you are.
DeleteIf a guy ghosts a woman it's a cardinal sin.
ReplyDeleteWhen a woman ghosts a guy the guy just goes on in life and gets over it.
I venture to say that on dating sites one of about one hundred profiles are truthful with a current picture.
When her profile picture is of her hiding behind a huge rock or tree or peeking over the top of her car and all you see is her head you know for sure the body type of a few extra pounds is a huge lie.
Ever notice how many women who live in Kansas City list a walk along the beach for a first date?
Then you have the ones who list as a first date a night on the town that would cost well over 500 dollars or more but don't want to spend a few days getting to know one another first with a few messages or phone calls.
Sorry before my billfold opens that much I have to know you're not 350 pound plus of cellulite. In fact I have to know a lot about you first.
Then you have the ones looking for someone to marry who claim all the kids are over 18 and then fail to tell you they all still live at home with their out of wedlock kids.
Last and not least you meet a woman finally for the first meet and are having dinner and talking about maybe plans for the next date when they drop the, "Oh by the way I am married I hope that isn't an issue? You see he is gone a lot and I want to go out and spend time with someone. It's not like we are sleeping together anymore."
How about getting a divorce or marking your profile as married cheater looking for a fling you fake slut.