Saturday, August 16, 2014

MUST READ!!! KANSAS CITY LADIES' MAN CRAIG GLAZER TALKS SEX VS. LOVE!!!



TKC NOTE: Let's switch gears for Saturday afternoon and check this EPIC passage from our pal Craig Glazer regarding life, love and sex ...

The Often Thick Line Between Sex and Love

Now here is a subject that applies to all of us. When you are in love with someone does that mean your sex life with them is based on the feelings of the heart? That's a subject most of us can relate too.

From what I've come to know, the two don't often meet, sex and love. I wish they did.Now these are just my opinions based on my experiences. Like most things precious in our lives we all hope for the best when it comes to love and sex but as time goes by, we start to expect the worst. Yes the CHEATING thoughts. Should I cheat, I'm bored in bed with my significant other. Is she cheating. All these thoughts come with time in each relationship. What do we do to 'spice up the sex life,' that's dangerous huh.

True love is best when its new. It's at the top of its game when we are very young and sex is new as well. However as that first relationship ends and we begin another one and another one, that's when the trouble all starts right. When will she get sick of me? When will I get sick or her? Now that the sex life is quieted down, do we still love each other? You come from work and she her car in front of the house and think 'damn she's home' by the way she yours and thinks the same thing.

We are told as kids that when you have a special partner its ok to 'make love.' In my experiences I don't often see the two acts or feelings match up. I wish they did, life would be so much better and defined.

For most of us, we use sexual fantasy to make our sex better. While engaged in intercourse we conjure up insane images of sex acts. Everything from seeing our partner in bed with others in front of us, to her with another woman, and as time goes on it usually gets darker. We've all used the porn movies to excite before or during intercourse with our true 'love' right. Is that an act of love or just sex, almost a violent act that just feels good. Then it ends and we come back to our senses and think..'did I just do that? What was I saying to her? Whey did she say 'yes' to all my explicit questions? Damn is this any kind of love or love making?

I think the answer is for the most part sex is just that and being in love is something else. Yes early on and in rare cases the two cross paths. Just not often enough. After all most relationships end over..'he or she found someone else'...right. It's always painful when that happens. So after a few of those we come to expect 'the worst' down the road in the next relationship.

Over my years of dating and living with a woman, I've come to see no matter who you are, how good you look or how much money and power you have, relationships usually end badly. Maybe its a few months or years and their is a broken marriage with children to consider. Oh boy do those hurt.

Is there an answer to love and sex being on the same page with lasting effects. NO! Yet we all seek out this childhood romantic lie. AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER. Remember.

The mind has a way to make us forget the pain at some point. We even forget the sex for the most part. Think not? How many snapshots in your brain can you see of the relationship's sex acts from that partner say ten years back. Even a year back. They fade right.

When one falls in love, and for me that hasn't been too often, its the greatest feeling ever. Then you start to worry about how long it will last.

When you love someone of the opposite sex, you want to cherish them, protect them,and often try and control them. Sex is really more like a drug. We all need to get our fix with someone, somehow, some way.

The age old question: Can you be in love with someone yet seek sexual pleasure elsewhere? Answer I believe is YES. However continued sexual encounters outside the relationship will do major damage. Usually ending your 'love' relationship at some point.

I've tried it both ways. Just have a bunch of 'girlfriends' for fun and sex or the one special lady. To this day I have no good answer for which is best. I do know this we will all keep looking for love til the end comes. It's human nature. We all want to LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER.
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89 Comments:

Anonymous said...

Dan Savage says most people are not monagamous.

Anonymous said...

Lonesome Loser

Anonymous said...

good advice all. Nice one Craig.

Anonymous said...

Good advise for bottom dwellers. King Carp has spoken!

Polar Bear said...

Yawn, fart, belch, nut scratch, vomit, fart......

Jr. hand your dad the whole fucking half gallon.

Anonymous said...

Redefining Tony's as a joke blog in progress.

Anonymous said...

Sexual transmitted diseases comes to mind. I guess once you have them all why care right?

Anonymous said...

Mexico protests Texas National Guard troops on US border

LMAO!

Anonymous said...

You hit this one out of the park Glazer. This is something we all think about.

Anonymous said...

Good advise for losers. You should start a column in hustler magazine.

Anonymous said...

The drugs and booze have damaged this guys brain over the years.

Anonymous said...

I'm in love with sex.

Problem solved!

Anonymous said...

Brother you are so right. I'm still looking for love at 48. Where is it?

Anonymous said...

Sex and love are not in the same cab ride. Agreed.

Anonymous said...

Glazer's had his chance. Bottom line is no woman with any intelligence will give this asshole the time of day.

Next

Anonymous said...

What a fucking idiot! Glazer you won't find love with strippers and whores. Dumbfuck.

Anonymous said...

He is a terrible writer. This was garbage. Also, completely unoriginal.

Anonymous said...

Brother you are so right.

That's a fucking term I have heard Glazer use many times so guess who made that fake ass post King Turd himself.

Anonymous said...

broken marriage with children to consider. Oh boy do those hurt.

This idiot has never had any kids which I might add was a smart thing, but he has no fucking idea how bad it hurts when he has never experienced it or he has been lying to us all these years and has a bunch of half white kids out there from all his black whore fucking.

Anonymous said...

This guy is what, a professional strip joint operator? The best sex advice you can get. Yeah, right.

Real men don't date whores and strippers said...

You can tell the caliber of a person just by looking at the life he has lived. Galzer is a total zero and will die a total zero. He likes to brag about his club but Jeff is the real brains behind that well lets say the person who is still keeping it together, neither Glazer has any business smarts. Craig can't even get a junk ass movie made and let me tell you getting a movie made is easy if you really want to make it Craig was always that I remember since school the guy who thought he was better than everyone. Well guess what women didn't like him then either he was creepy, arrogant, and a true asshole as a teenager. So long story short this guy is an asshole who thinks he knows all about sex, love and how the world operates. Last I knew only people who couldn't have a normal healthy relationship with a woman dated whores and strippers. But wait you never ever date a whore or a stripper, you buy their time to be with you. Why would either of those two women waste their time with a loser like Glazer when they could be out making some real money unless he as well is paying for services rendered. So Craig I wish we had all the neat trick phones now back when we was in high school so the night when I kicked your ass twenty different ways to Sunday out in back of Katz could have been recorded so that every time you try and act like somebody I could link to a page of you laying on the asphalt crying and I mean bawling like a baby begging me to stop.

Anonymous said...

Craig, Craig, Craig.... Just stop man..... It's OK....... Just stop, bro....

Look man.... Long time listener... First time caller... But you're like a bad Johnny Lee song: Looking for love in all the wrong places....

You've got a lot to offer someone.... Quit chasin' it.... Let it come around ...... The gems always do....

Damn....

Anonymous said...

Our Pal Craig Glazer?

Maybe your pal Tony but sure as hell never be mine. 1:48 that's a video I would have liked to seen.

Vern said...

Get back to snitching I need more tips on who to bust next.

Anonymous said...

Glazer writing about love and sex is like Alonzo writing about getting and having a job. Two cum loads that should have been contained in a Trojan and sent to the landfill in a trash truck and buried.

Anonymous said...

Pow the haters and trolls are on the loose tonight. Our boy writes a cool piece on how the sex goes and gets atttacked. I love it.

Anonymous said...

Glazer if the women you date are all hookers and strippers? GIVE US SOME BITCH.

Anonymous said...

And 4:03 just gobbles his cock like the cocksucker he is

David Rice said...

Dan Malarky, a junkie and snitch, Tom the drunk, and Bubba the pill pusher snitch all jumping on the Glazer. Hey hater who wrote movies are easy to get made. Really. You make any? Craig produced at least 5 I know of Charlie. I did the door at Stanfords for years, Jeff and Craig are good guys. I don't have a clue about sex and love. You tell me.

Golden Ghetto Born & Rasied said...

David you are even a worse loser than Glazer. You jump in here all the time trying to back your boy and failing. Door man at Stanfords now there is a job that will take you places. So you do what now work at McDonalds for minimum wage? Oh by the way I am none of the names you mentioned so see loser how stupid that makes you look. But I know who 1:48 is I was there and saw it with my own eyes and your boy get his butt stomped big time in like 20 seconds wasn't much of a fight more like a slam bam you're the fuck out.

Anonymous said...

I was at Coaches Steakhouse a few nights back. Craig Glazer came in with a young gal. If that girl was a hooker or stripper where do I do to get one. She was maybe 25 and oh man what a dish. I want one Craig. I read your posts and find them fun.

Golden Ghetto Born & Rasied said...

Blogger sucks can't even post right

Anonymous said...

the girls name is Jazmine. That's his main girl. She is a beauty. It won't last.

Anonymous said...

You mean Coach's Bar & Grill 4:29? I doubt you was there faker you don't even know the name of the joint. Word has it Glazer has a stripper GF so fucktard you loose again with your fake post.

Anonymous said...

David Rice is a bigger dumb fuck then Glazer, who is the biggest snitch of them all. Don't know who those other cats are.
And Jazmine is a stripper

Anonymous said...

4:31 rumor has it she is costing him about 350 and hour to be seen with him in public. Sad that one has to pay to be seen with women.

Anonymous said...

4:03 I bet she is costing him more than that.

Anonymous said...

How much this moron pay to pin this at the top all day?

Bob Thurman said...

Craig Glazer pays for dinner and booze but pay a girl to be with him. NO. Like it or not he is one of the cities biggest playboys, has been for many years. Dates babes that 30 somethings can't get. A fact.

I have known Craig for many years. He may have lost a fight or two but none in the past ten years. I see him every week at our club. I have helped train him. Not a man you want to fuck with. Unless you are me.

Burt said...

I second that Bobby. You still a bad ass? I hear you can still knock'em down.

Anonymous said...

1:48:
big freaking deal what happened
30-40 years ago. who gives a
fuck.
what are you doing now?
I doubt you're doing much of
anything....hang tight there
boy...maybe one day you'll
be somedbody.
your attacks on glaze are pretty
weak. you're an idiot.

Anonymous said...

Thurman there are plenty of guys in this town that can and have kicked your ass. This isn't 1980 anymore. Read your own post at 5:17. Idiot

Anonymous said...

Why does every Glazer story have comments about likes or doesn't like him. Sick of it. Hey about the story! I caught my old lady in bed with my neighbor when we were engaged. Thank God. Saved me a fortune. Sex and love can be nice when it happens.

Bob Thurman said...

That wasn't my post troll face. Hey Glazer went out to meet a couple of you fat comment haters a few months back none showed. Don't make me find your little dick and kick it up your fat ass.

Anonymous said...

Glazer can't get a woman his own age. Too mature, honest and not impressed with his pos car and shithole club. The guy is a fucking dung heap.

Anonymous said...

Bobby Thurman is a cock sucker! It's not the 80's is right. You sucked then!

Anonymous said...

Well I think these comments really show a lot of support for the author.

Anonymous said...

Yep he's on here all night cause the idots like you like to comment. He's the comment King.

Anonymous said...

I love Craig Glazer. I am over 30. I'd go out with him, he's a wild ass mofo.

Anonymous said...

Ferguson - The Circus Continues Live

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Anonymous said...

5:14 to 5:17 is the same poster I bet it's who????? BOB, I doubt it probably Craig using the name thinking he is striking fear in to us. Anyone who hangs with Glazer is a loser. I could name hundreds of people who are doing better than Glazer and not a one of them had Glazers help. If shit was gold Glazer would be something but it isn't and neither is he. Anybody who says or points out the truth about Glazer is suppose to be a loser. Sorry it's only Glazers loser friends that point that out. Ever notice when Glazer is getting his ass kicked in here Blunder Thurman makes a showing another loser nobody from the 80's who crashed and burned who backed out after getting beat all the time a loser who couldn't cut it.

Anonymous said...

We know 5:44/ Thurman

Rodger Adams, Liberty Mo said...

Glazer does get a lot of comments no doubt. Now how many of you would post things if this was the type of comments you received? See Craig has never been know for being to smart. Sort of like the loser who goes to the biker bar week after week thinking they like him because they beat the shit out of him every time he goes there. Glazer is who he is and never will be smart enough to figure it all out or change. As was said on another post Tony I am sure puts him on here and as most of us laugh our asses off at what the people say to him. I know I do.

Anonymous said...

Does Glazer check ID's when he's putting the moves on girls?

Anonymous said...

Ol' Limp Dick

Anonymous said...

It is funny as hell 5:59. We have to read this shit until TKC gets back from the rock Slys cock party.

Smartman II said...

Everybody pays in some way for pussy. You get married you have to help support her for that pussy the rest of your life. And that is ok it's a healthy long term way to be in life. The you have some one like Glazer who fails with everything he has ever touched. This is the type of person that could just pay for fucking and it be way cheaper. The truth be known Glazer could date ugly fat women and have all that he wants because he is an ugly person himself and fat ugly chicks like guys with hair pieces and fast cars who wear sunglasses 24/7. Yes his ex wife told me he like to have sex wearing his shades to maintain his cool image. But no he has to try and impress the whole world he can fuck better looking women that none of us in his mind could ever have. For that he lays out lots of cash and shows just how stupid he really is. One day soon he will be alone in a bed knocking on deaths door and will see that his bullshit, limited money, so called movie deal, gold badges or bought fame is going to save his ass from the Reaper who will be standing there with Woodbeck who is pointing a finger saying, "You fucked up loser.".

Anonymous said...

Glazer Bones needs some quick cash.


Toni Bones

I have childcare and a safe ride to and from Ferguson, MO. Admittedly, I do not have many federal reserve notes to fund this trip, though.

chuck said...

"Over my years of dating and living with a woman, I've come to see no matter who you are, how good you look or how much money and power you have, relationships usually end badly. Maybe its a few months or years and their is a broken marriage with children to consider. Oh boy do those hurt."

No new ground broken here, but Glazer is right.

Anonymous said...

How can Glazer know anything about relationships since he's never had a real or genuine one?

Anonymous said...

Women are disposable ho's to Glazer and always have been.

Smartman II said...

chuck,
I have been married to the same woman now for 41 years my best friend has been married to his for 40 and another just had their 38th so you tell me how what he said is right. Not all of us fail at relationships and damn few of us live a life like Glazer has. So how is he even close to knowing what is right?

Nancy Wilson said...

The only thick thing here is Craigs head. He only knows sex and what he wants and to hell with anything else. To know love takes compassion and giving both two genetic traits Craig will never have and why he fails and ruins all relationships.

Anonymous said...

Wonder how many of these comments were posted by the King and Bad Bob the Turd Thruman?

I didn't see any from Balbonis this time since that one was so obvious and was called out some time ago. Now we have Balbonis Thruman.

Douche bags deluxe.

T guy said...

If I ever do Toni Bones in a Plaza water fountain I am pretty sure I'll know the difference between sex and sex with a blow up doll.

The Capt'n said...

Who is this Craig Glazer guy? I like the cut of his jib!

chuck said...

6:50

God Bless ya...

Anonymous said...

Hey Thumper, suck my cock.

Bob Thurman said...

Sure I'll do that and let you even fuck me in the ass long as you give me a reach around.

Anonymous said...

Glazer u bring out the bunch

Anonymous said...

boy gets the response. Comments

Anonymous said...

u rock CG

Anonymous said...

Only a sadist would like these comments but then it all is the truth about Glazer that rat snitch motherfucker.

Byron Funkhouser said...

Nancy Wilson, Carl's Attack Bitch.

What do you know about love? Kissing the man's ass isn't love, its slavery.

Go to work Monday, & make you boss some more money, you stupid dyke!

Anonymous said...

Glazer makes me feel like I'm back in 8th grade.

Nancy Wilson said...

Nice to see you back Byron and I see your time away in rehab was wasted. Look simpleton I have been married for 27 years to a wonderful man who unlike you has a job and a career and makes more than enough for both of us to live on. I continue to work because I love my job and enjoy working with my customers. Because of that I as well make damn good money due to my commissions. Yes that's right hillbilly boy the more I sell the more I make and I always exceed my sales projections. But this is the best part yet hillbilly boy I only work part time. Yes sir that's a fact I work around 25 hours a week and make more per week than you do a month I bet. So I wouldn't call that slave work at all. But what do you know about work, you have never really had a job your whole life. But you are fast to condemn those that do work so you can stay at home on your doped up ass and do nothing but lie about who you are.

Bud said...

I read this article this morning. It does apply to most relationships, no not all. Glazer has been in the single lane for most of his days. The personal attacks seem silly to me.

Its this guy's opinion nothing more. Story hit many people hot button.

Anonymous said...

The writer's words about remembering past sex acts with lovers hit home. As for me I can only remember a few of my sex acts with my ex wife of 9 years. He's right.

Anonymous said...

I see 'Thunder Thurman' on here. Just looked at some of his fights on U Tube. Tough guy.

Anonymous said...

Ladies man huh. Take away his Lotus, clubs,media b.s. and I guess his good looks then you got Craig Glazer.

Anonymous said...

Someone saying they spent a nice sunny day inside watching old Thurman fights is a sure sign of an lifeless prick who has no clue what tough is. Stop sucking Craigs dick with your posts, Glazer gravy on your chin isn't sexy.

CG said...

Once again thank all of you for the many comments. Appreciate all the words. At least you are reading the stories. These are my opinions. I know many readers love the hate mail. It's entertaining. Thanks again.

Anonymous said...

This is rude, but I am going to say this, and I mean this in the nicest way possible. There is something just not quite right with craig glazer and how he looks at people.

I am afraid his attitude about women also applies to how he approaches and treats all people.

Normally when someone can't maintain healthy relationships with women, that means they don't usually do to well with having male friends as well.

This guy needs some help. Bless his heart.

He never says anything NICE about his woman. Look, I don't care about what she does for a living. Dancers/entertainers get old and I've watched enough HBO to know that not everyone can dance till retirement. He needs to say something nice about her as a person, like some internal qualities, something that explains her character and why he likes her for more than her outsides. People change but who they are inside remains the same. He seems to only say things about her as they pertain to him. He doesn't say very nice adoring things about her. If you read his writing, he doesn't write like he adores her and loves her. I don't think he loves her for her, he just loves her for her outsides. If you read his writing, he mentions her in context of himself, almost like she is an object. His writing portrays his third person narrative of self-serving bias. To make this narrative analysis of his blog summary; the guy is in love with himself...he lacks empathy and treats others bad. He borderlines on a pathology very similar to many criminal types. His charm and wit are good for luring people in. Then he turns on you, is mean to you, and acts all needy and weak, then it gets better and then this cycle starts all over again. Usually this pathology is based on some sort of exchange, where as subject feels he is owed and entitled to something, either physical or mental. Either way, hanging out with this guy is gonna cost you, because it is a catch 22, either physically or in spirit. Don't stand up for yourself or express your disappointment with his type, or you will be met with big pity parties and needy behavior. This type is also good at justifying their behavior and reframing their actions in a "hero" light. These type of people have enough empathy to be socially acceptable, but they really don't care about anyone else. Glazer has entered a retreating phase now where he feels wise and now wants everyone to know all the great things he has learned. He wants people to understand and follow him, and in a weird way, justifying his behavior, and reframing his shortcomings in a positive light. Again, no one deserves to be treated like this. I do not care if his girlfriend is a stripper. No one deserves to be in a bad relationship with a borderline pathology person. Read the things he says about her. It doesn't seem to healthy to me. The same should be said for people that work with him...they need to watch out for his personality traps.

I am sorry about this guys issues. I now know too much about him and how his brain works. He might want to keep some of this stuff to himself. He is moving into bad territory by saying this stuff on the computer.

I think Tony is a nicer person than glazer. I think they have a lot in common but Tony has a graceful spirit. I do not know why these too are so close. I suppose you have to have a good cop and a bad cop in every friendship. If you were friends with people that were just like you, life would be very boring. I think that maybe Tony has had love, had a good upbringing with some sort of values in his home training, and believes in love, hope, and all those good things where as glazer loves himself. Oh yeah and glazer gave tony money, I heard through the grapevine.

Smartman II said...

If Tony is getting paid by Glazer to post this shit he writes then by all means charge away Tony. Just FYI I'd get my cash up front Glazer has a long history of not paying his bills.

CG said...

I just love this nonsense. No I don't pay Tony or anyone else for press I don't have to. I do pay for radio spots for Stanfords, you kinda have to do that.
As for saying bad things about my girlfriend. Hello this article had nothing to do with her, she is not mentioned. It's about sex and love. By the way I love my girlfriend and she is doing well. She quit dancing as a matter of fact. I think she will find herself now. She's a smart gal, she got me.

This insane talk about my trying to prove something etc...I'm not I have vast experience in many things about life, thats all. I just give you my opinions, they not be yours. That's fine.

Anonymous said...

BHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!

Byron Funkhouser said...

Nancy Wilson, you ignorant slut. Only middle class puppies talk about how much money they make. Life is really about how much freedom you have to do as you please. Yes, its called freedom, not laziness.

I assume, you assume. I have worked. I was even a stupid middle class puppy once like you, but I left the rat race & the perpetual motion machine.

You're only proving that middle class people think that they are better than the poor. Everyone knows that only the poor have any nobility. That's the true irony of your precious class system.

Anonymous said...

Seems to be information here about who likes who and who hates who. Glazer must be the most interesting man in KC. You love him, you hate him.


I don't see this continued personal debate on other writers in KC. So maybe its true,

Anonymous said...

Sure it's true about Glazer. Just as the truth of him being a rat snitch.But long as he thinks and continues to tell people how much better he is he will continue to piss people off. But in the end he will be as one pointed out the loser who dies alone and I bet ALL ALONE it will be.